There are times when you find that the more effort you put in to attain something, the more it gets out of your reach. Some things in this world are meant to be handled like how one would handle a bar of soap. You have to cradle and caress it gently in your hands as you're holding it. Grasp it too hard and it just slips right out of your hands. Trouble then beckons to those who drop their soaps and bend over to pick it up.